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My Path to Wellness is Green

My Wellness Path is Green: 
After a long career as a high school teacher and coach I found a new vocation as a life and wellness coach.  This career change occurred after completing a serious effort to regain my own personal health.  Since then I have continued my role as a professional educator but directed towards teaching others about what it takes to attain healthy lifestyles and relationships.  Through years of training and research I have discovered the healthiest lifestyle is green and natural which can be promoted through -
  
Organic and locally grown food free of chemicals and pesticides
Hydration featuring purified water and eliminating corn syrup sweetened drinks
Varied forms of movement including weight training, walking, Pilates, Qigong and Tai Chi
Avoidance of bph plastic containers that transfer toxins into our food and water
Holistic practices that promote the mind, body, spirit connection
Expansive social networks of friends and families leads to longevity and health 
Community connections -eco friendly practices of supporting local business owners
Altruism and philanthropy; giving back through volunteerism or contributions to local charities
 
As part of my healthy lifestyle research I was seeking a wellness spa for stress relief.  I ended up buying Sonrisa and have transformed it into the only Green Spa certified facility in the surrounding six state areas.  Sonrisa features many wellness modalities with massage, reflexology, and natural hair and make up products.  We specifically avoid chemicals and toxins that are commonly found in the cosmetic and beauty industry that can be dangerous to humans. 
This year we introduced an all-new line of beauty products that are natural and organic.  Terra Jewel is a private label mineral make up line that is natural and irritant free.  The cream and liquid versions have organic bases and can be custom blended to complement anyone’s unique skin. 
I don’t teach or coach in high school anymore but I am still an Educator in the area of healthy lifestyles and wellness.  Color me green for greater health and longevity. 
 

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Our Company Diversity Statement

Dear Friends,
I wanted to share our company diversity statement as a continuation of our Be A Better You program for the workplace. 
Sonrisa Salon and Day Spa
Diversity as a means to “Being a Better You” 
Platitudes are Cheap.  We've all heard companies and individuals say they're committed to "diversity" and "tolerance" without ever getting specific, so here's our stance on it:
We welcome you.
We welcome people – employees, customers and community members - of any gender, race, age, ethnicity, size, nationality, sexual orientation, religion, culture, subculture, and political opinion. We welcome the ordinary and extraordinary and everyone in between.  We believe in being inclusive, welcoming, and supportive of anyone who comes to us in good faith
We believe it's not only possible but also beneficial for people of all backgrounds, viewpoints and persuasions to come together and build meaningful relationships – personal, professional or both.  We believe in the broad spectrum of human experience. We believe that amazing things can happen when people from different backgrounds and experiences engage each other in conversation and commerce.
We won't speak of or treat anyone as something less because they may not be just like us but rather we’ll work to understand, accept and hopefully embrace our differences.   
We get excited about creativity, individualism, professionalism and personal betterment.  We support freedom of creative and professional expression, within the few restrictions we need to keep our services viable and lawful.  We are obliged to follow certain laws and industry regulations but to us it is more a matter of personal commitment than compliance.   
We have enough experience to know that we may not get any of this perfect on the first try. But we have enough hope, energy, and idealism to want to learn things we don't know now. We may not be able to satisfy everyone, but we can certainly work to avoid offending anyone. And we promise that if we get it wrong, we'll listen carefully and respectfully and we'll do our best to make good on our mistakes.
Come work with us, and dream with us.  “Be A Better You™” as a result. 
 


      

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Be A Better You

As a life and wellness coach and consultant and owner of a wellness salon and spa I know that personal growth and positive energy is vital to the health of an organization. My employees have sales and performance goals like every other company but we are not like every other company, we are a wellness company and in order to provide wellness services we need to establish our own personal wellness foundation for health and balance. I created the Be*A*Better*You* program and had it trade marked. The acronym is BABY and our employees in the company are learning a lot about themselves and their co workers. Read below:

Be*A*Better*You*™

The B*A*B*Y* program for personal growth really looks at putting yourself first. If that sounds selfish it isn’t. You must get your own needs met before you can be of service to others. Babies are very much in touch with their needs, hunger, discomfort, loneliness etc. Adults, not so much…We may think that we are still hungry after a full meal, push through discomfort, smoke or drink too much when we are lonely or anxious instead of choosing a healthy nurturing way to take care of ourselves. If you had a good care-giver (like a mom) then you were comforted when upset, fed nutritious meals when you were hungry, and were shown affection and encouragement.  

For most of us we tend to listen to our inner critic and suppress the healthy nurturing instinct to treat ourselves with love and compassion. Remember before flights the cabin attendant instructs you to put the mask on your own face during a drop in cabin pressure before helping others. As a coach I know that positive growth can occur with inspiration, accountability and permission to practice kindness and self care. I divided our employees into teams with captains who have had specific coaching and instruction. How do we measure this process? We begin to look at the way that we interact with the following:

Character, Circle, Community, Company, Country, Cosmos

Character is our idea of self. Do we treat this concept of self with care, concern, compassion, charity and consideration?

Circle is considered our inner circle, the folks we live with, family, friends and loved ones. How do we treat the members of our inner circle?

Community can be considered our faith community where we gather and worship, and or, our neighborhoods and organizations where we belong.

Company is where we work and make a living so that we can make a life. It includes co-workers and clients. 

Country for us is the United States of America. Are we good citizens? Being a good citizen requires more than following national, state and local laws.

Cosmos is global, universal and unending. Do you know about the butterfly effect? What am I doing for the universe, world and future generations?

Set goals for each area above. Those should be small and may be interrelated. Recycling positively impacts Character, Community, Company, Country and Cosmos. 

I picked up after a family member may be recorded under Circle.

I meditated or prayed for 15 minutes record under all the C’s.

I exercised today for 20 minutes- record under Character.

I relaxed and read for two hours- Character and maybe Circle if that practice makes you a nicer YOU for your circle.

You are getting the idea-cool- Make certain that you RECORD and REPORT TO YOUR CAPTAIN. POSITIVE REPORTS ARE NOT LIMITED TO YOUR GOAL AREAS AND NEED TO INCLUDE ALL OF THE GOOD THAT YOU DO ☺ At the end of two months we tabulate reports and celebrate success!

Be*A*Better*You*™

 This program is based on comprehensive human behavior and cognitive behavior research. If your company or organization is interested in trying this program I will be glad to provide the information to you free of charge in exchange for your results for my publication. Contact me at karenkiss1@aol.com

 

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Tai Chi is for Me and You Too!

During the month of July I attended the National Wellness Institute in Wisconsin and received an intensive training certificate to facilitate Therapeutic Tai Chi and Qigong. I did the training for my own benefit but was encouraged by my teacher Dr. Roger Jahnke to offer it to my employees and clients. I began leading sessions in August and the participants have reported  impressive health gains including, lower blood pressure, lowered blood sugar, greater flexibility, less pain and anxiety. My personal trainers have noticed that I have greater flexibility and balance. It is amazing is how word has traveled about the sessions. I never know who is going to show up and folks from our community that I have never met have joined us. Western science has now embraced mindful movement and meditation for healing and stress relief. This practice requires a folding chair and all movements are taught from a seated position. The key health benefits of Tai Chi and Qigong include:

Stress Relief-Induces a relaxed, meditative state of mind that helps relieve stress

Balance-Emphasis on good posture and shifting of weight from foot to foot improves balance

Heart Health-Lowers your heart rate, lowers blood pressure, and increases circulation by dilating the blood vessels.

Immune Boost-Gets your lymph flowing,eliminating waste and toxins and carrying specialized immune cells to fight disease.

Mental Focus-Calms your mind by slowing down brain wave patterns and improving focus and attention. Tai Chi and Qigong uses the power of healing imagery and affirmation which helps to promote a positive attitude.

Contact me if you are interested in participating at karenkiss1@aol.com 

 Sonrisa Salon and Day Spa is a member of the National Wellness Institute.

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Anti Aging?

With all of the anti aging products, propaganda and our adoration of the youth culture, I am wondering who should be against aging? We all want to look our best and I love having skin rejuvenating facials and AVEDA hair coloring services at Sonrisa but none of those things change the fact that I am 52. I like being 52 and am really looking forward to being 53 and so on. I hear comments from people stating that growing older is the pits. Wait a minute, time for a re-frame here from a wellness coach- I am very much in favor of aging and it certainly beats the alternative. My favorite stage of my life so far is right now and I expect next year to be even better. Please continue to age with me and along the way let’s live each day fully with vitality and wellness.
Look at the information below from the book The Blue Zones for tips to increase your longevity: 
Move Naturally – Make your home; community and workplace present you with natural ways to move. Focus on activities you love, like gardening, walking and playing with your family.
Right Outlook – Know and be able to articulate your sense of purpose, and ensure your day is punctuated with periods of calm.

Eat Wisely – Instead of groping from fad diet to fad diets, use time-honored strategies for eating 20% less at meals. Avoid meat and processed food and drink a couple of glasses of wine daily.
Belong to the Right Tribe – Surround yourself with the right people, make the effort to connect or reconnect with your religion and put loved ones first.
This may all sound too simple, but the payoff is huge. The average American could live up to 14 more good years by putting these habits to work.
Next Entry-Tai Chi is for me and You Too!

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Connecting With Others

In my last entry I wrote about the inevitable conflict that we all experience living with other homo sapiens. I quoted Marcel “Esse est coesse.” A close translation is, “To be is to be together”

Living with others and experiencing conflict far outweighs living in isolation from a health and wellness perspective. Connectivity or community support is vital to good health and longevity.

Social isolation delays recovery time from illness, contributes to depression and is linked with early mortality. You do not see those centegenarians in the Blue Zones living in isolation. They live in closely knit communities and are valuable contributors to their societies. They LIVE vital and joyful lives.

I like the idea of healthy longevity and was inspired by two articles written by my coach Dr. Michael Arlowki,Lifestyle as Art and Living like you were inTuscany. (The link is below, click on articles section.)

I live like I am in a village, and have relationships with folks in my surrounding community. I love to eat, shop, spend and celebrate locally! It is a greener way to live and very satisfying to be connected and supported by my community.

http://realbalance.com/resources/articles-a-resources/cat_view/16-articles

 

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The 4 C's for Coping With Conflict

Conflict is a major stress producer and it is completelyunavoidable in the human condition. If you live or work with any other humans…youwill experience conflict.

I learned in my Sophomore Philosophy class that “to live” is“to live with.” Gabriel Marcel stated “Esse est Coesse." “Which means, “to be“is “to be together;” we are social by our nature. That must have resonated withme because I can still quote it and believe it.

All social animals experience conflict so let’s look at howwe can keep our composure high, and our cortisol level low!

The following affirmations will help you through any  conflict at home, work or in socialsituations. Even if your disagreement is with someone disagreeable maintainingyour cool will serve your health better in the long run.

Practice these “4 C’s” for coping with conflict:

 Be Confident

“I am confident we will work through this and find asolution.”

Be Calm

“I am calm and composed in my thoughts and words and allthat I am communicating.”

Be Capable

“I am capable of change, and great is my capacity to learnand grow.”

Be Compassionate

“I am compassionate with myself and others. I can offer andaccept forgiveness. “

This takes practice but it works. Reframing conflict as anopportunity to learn and grow is a mindset shift.

 The upside of Esse Est Coesse in my next blog. until then, be well

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Green Spa Network Conference

I am blogging from The Hotel Drisco in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco during a record-breaking heat wave. Today I attended the Green Spa Network at the Golden Gate Club in San Francisco California. The purpose of the conference was to network with other green spa members, discuss sustainability and become familiar with Green Spa's Sustainability Assessment Tool (SAT).  We were then addressed by The GSN Personal Care Advisory Forum and the Keynote speaker, Chip Conley, founder and CEO of Joie De Vivre Hospitality. Chip is also  author of the book  "PeakHow Great Companies Get Their Mojo From Maslow." 

Following the keynote, the Green Spa Congress convened. I participated in the networking committee and realized that the entire conference reaffirmed for me our company commitment to green, sustainable and eco friendly practices. Michael Stusser the Chairman of the GSN stated, “It is a business ethos, not a marketing tactic.”

I discovered that regrettably some companies are practicing "Green Washing." Green Washing is the marketing and labeling products green because they contain a few botanicals but are in fact chemically laden. This is very confusing for the customer and reminds spa owners the need to educate our guests.

A happier discovery was my introduction to the tea docents at Chado-En. The Tokugawa family invited me to experience SHINWA, the Japanese word for the reliance on Mother Nature for health and beauty. It is a healthy and delicious practice that we will be introducing to our guests at Sonrisa. I’ll post information on the health benefits of Organic Kyoto Karigane when we receive the products.

I plan to attend the three-day conference this fall and hope to serve on a committee or as a liaison to other Wellness organizations.

Sonrisa is the only member of The Green Spa Network in Kansas City and the nearest spa member is in Chicago. I am very proud to be a member of this international organization and it's affiliates.

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Stress Management Continued

Most of us have coping strategies to deal with the major stressors in our lives.  I'll wager if you are like most Americans those strategies may not be the healthiest mechanisms that you could use.

The most common coping mechanisms are : over or under eating, alcohol, television, compulsive shopping, video gaming, gambling and drug abuse. Any of the above mentioned an be acceptable on moderation except  spending money that you cannot afford and drug abuse. ( I include tobacco and excessive alcohol as drug abuse.) When you create awareness around your stressors and your current coping mechanism, you have taken step one for your new healthier strategy.

Brainstorm and begin to list alternative coping strategies for stressors that are realistic and possible for you. Exercise is always a great option. In my work  as a Wellness Coach I avoid the word exercise because it can connote unpleasant or negative memories of injuries or failed attempts at getting in shape.

I use the word MOVEMENT. Movement can include social or solo dancing, gardening, household cleaning tasks or walking the family dog. Taking classes can be fun and are fairly inexpensive when taken at the YMCA, Community Center or though your Community Education Classes. I love strength training and Pilates and will include links to both of my trainers at the end of this message.

MUSIC is another great stress manager. Listen to your favorite station, band, composers or use the type of scientific music that I use with my clients which can produce the types of Alpha, Beta, Delta or Theta brain waves to induce relaxation, inspiration, energy and focus, or sleep readiness.. The clinically proven audio technology has been a great asset for myself and my clients.  My daughter Katie and I listen to Beta music to help us focus on our work.

MEDITATE which includes prayer, contemplation or the state of thinking positive thoughts while breathing deeply. No shallow breathing with this experience.  Look at the article on my blog  Meditation Can Wish You Well for more information. Meditation and deep breathing lowers blood pressure and the cortisol ( stress ) hormone.

 These are just a few suggestions for managing stress. I have an entire semester worth of material that I share with clients and students. Remember the 3M"S- MOVEMENT-MUSIC AND MEDITATION.

http://www.ftkcnorth.com/content.php?page=trainers Link for Fitness Together strength training Scott Espinosa

 sarah@apilatesspace.com Pilates training Sarah Breedlove


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Meditation Can Wish You Well

Here is a copy of a great article that I memtioned in the post below on stress management:

 

© 2009 MedicineNet, Inc. All rights reserved.

MedicineNet does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

Source: http://www.medicinenet.com

 

Meditation Can Wish You Well, StudySays

By Amanda Gardner

HealthDay Reporter

THURSDAY, March 27 (HealthDay News) — Newresearch suggests that qualities the world desperately needs more of — love,kindness and compassion — are indeed teachable.

 

Imaging technology shows that people who practice meditation thatfocuses on kindness and compassion actually undergo changes in areas of thebrain that make them more in tune to what others are feeling.

"Potentially one can train oneself to behave in a way which is morebenevolent and altruistic," said study co-author Antoine Lutz, anassociate scientist at the University of Wisconsin-Madison.

How far this idea can be extrapolated remains in question, though.

"I think there's no question that people can benefit from thesepractices," said Dr. Louis Teichholz, medical director of complementarymedicine and chief of cardiology at Hackensack University Medical Center in NewJersey. "I think the question is how easy is it to get trained enough sothat it will make a clinical difference, and I don't think this study answersthat."

The findings were published in the March 26 issue of the PublicLibrary of Science One.

Recent brain-imaging studies have suggested that the insula and theanterior cingulate cortices regions are involved in the empathic response toother people's pain. But not much is known about how cultivating compassionmight affect brain circuitry.

And previous research has indicated that meditation may reduce thebrain's reaction to pain, and that it may actually improve cardiovascularhealth by decreasing the risk of  metabolic syndrome.

"The main research question was to see whether some positivequalities such as loving-kindness and compassion or, in general, pro-socialaltruistic behavior, can be understood as skills and can be trained," Lutzexplained.

In the same way that training in sports or chess or music producesfunctional and structural changes in the brain, the Wisconsin researcherswanted to see if cultivating compassion through the practice of meditation alsoproduced brain changes — suggesting that compassion could be viewed as alearned skill.

The study involved 32 people: 16 Tibetan monks and lay practitioners,who had meditated for a minimum of 10,000 hours throughout their lifetime (the"experts"); and 16 control subjects, who had only recently beentaught the basics of compassion meditation (the "novices").

The senior author of the paper, Richard Davidson, a professor ofpsychiatry and psychology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison and an experton imaging the effects of meditation, has been collaborating with the DalaiLama since 1992, studying the brains of Tibetan monks.

For the study, individuals in the control group were instructed first towish loved ones well-being and freedom from pain, then to wish such benefits tohumankind as a whole.

"We looked at whether there were any differences between expertsand novices in generating compassion with the idea that a central practice inthis tradition [of meditation] is to cultivate these positive emotions,"Lutz said. "We wanted to see if there were any differences in the way thebrain was reacting."

Each participant was hooked up to a functional MRI both while meditatingand not meditating. During each state, the participants heard sounds designedto produce responses: the negative sound of a distressed woman, the positivesound of a baby laughing, and the neutral sound of background noise from arestaurant.

"We showed altered activation in brain circuitry that waspreviously linked to empathy and perspective-taking or the capacity tounderstand other's intentions and mental states and, more precisely, the insulawas more activated, particularly in response to negative emotionalsounds," Lutz said.

In the monks, especially, these areas of the brain were activated evenmore when they hard the cries of the distressed woman, she said.

The study authors hope the findings might one day help with a range ofproblems, including reducing the incidence of bullying in schools or helpingpeople with depression.

"The next step is to see if this works," Lutz said. "Ifit works, then it can be applied to selective populations — for instance,depressed people or, more broadly, in education."

SOURCES: Antoine Lutz, Ph.D., associate scientist, WaismanCenter, University of Wisconsin-Madison; Louis E. Teichholz, M.D., medicaldirector, complementary medicine, and chief, cardiology, Hackensack UniversityMedical Center, New Jersey; March 26, 2008, Public Library of Science One

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